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Module 3/4 26 min

Building the relationship with your new manager

Step 1 / 2·Three conversations you must ask for

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Learning objectives — after this module you will:

  • Initiate the three important conversations
  • Turn expectations into a written record
  • Adapt your reporting to your manager's style
Learn ~12 min

Three conversations you must ask for

Do not wait for your manager — they are busier than you think.

The third should happen before the formal review, not during it.

What to ask in each

ConversationWhat to ask
Week 1 — ExpectationsOver the next three months, if I do this well, what will you see change? Is anything urgent?
Week 4 — Context checkI understand the priorities are A, B, C and the constraint is D. Where have I got it wrong?
Week 10 — ReviewAgainst what we agreed in week one, where do you see me? What should I do differently next quarter?

Send a summary after each one

Three lines by email: what I understand the priorities to be, what I will do, by when. It turns a conversation into an agreement, and protects both sides when memories diverge three months later.

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